Alexander Mediation Group - Divorce Mediation & Family Attorney

WHAT IS ALEXANDER MEDIATION GROUP?

Alexander Mediation Group is a professional divorce mediation firm serving couples and families throughout Hamptons and New York. Together with the couple, the mediator addresses financial, emotional and legal issues of the divorce. As trained family law attorneys, we have both background and knowledge necessary to navigate the complex world of divorce. As professionals trained and certified in an experiential, therapeutic modality, by the Focusing International Institute, we approach our process and clients with respect for their individuality and humanity. While working towards legal solutions, we also address practical matters to support clients in advancing through the critical transition of divorce.

Rachel Alexander quoted in the Purist Magazine of the Hamptons <click here>

STILL SAVING YOU MORE THAN MONEY

Mediation is often significantly less expensive than a divorce. The cost of a contested divorce can vary widely, but some experts estimate that they start around $20,000, and go up from there. By contrast, mediation is a fraction of the cost … READ MORE

A HOLISTIC PROCESS

Traditionally, family law attorneys approach neither the family nor divorce holistically. Many divorce lawyers focus only on what immediately benefits their client, missing the long-term view. Certain “wins” can cost the client more than he is prepared to lose – such as the breakdown of goodwill or valued relationships … LEARN MORE

LONG TERM SOLUTIONS

Alexander Mediation Group is a resource for clients and past clients alike. When, over time, circumstances change which affect your divorce agreement, or creates new wrinkles, you may need family law attorneys to help address the situation. … READ MORE

GOAL ORIENTED APPROACH

Even while mediation rests in the present, it is with a consciousness of intention towards the future. When people are encountering painful emotions and endeavoring to overcome overwhelming challenges, goals are invaluable … READ MORE

LISTEN

Listen to Attunements to ground, calm and clear your mind. Improve your capacity to problem solve creatively and effectively.

SUPPORT

Do not face divorce alone! Join others managing the challenges of divorce at our monthly free divorce support group.

CHILDREN

Your biggest concern and our constant commitment. The best interests of your children is central in every decision we help you negotiate.

RESOURCES

Now is the time to hoard resources. Some are right here, by way of our blog articles, audio recordings, and monthly support group. Do not go it alone!

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Mediation Questions to Consider

January 6, 2021 - by Rachel Alexander, Esq.

{7 minutes to read} Clients often ask what can they do to prepare for mediation. This article concerns itself with questions mediation candidates might use to prepare for mediation — not so much regarding collecting this receipt or that statement, but in a more comprehensive and holistic way —

Alphabet Soup for the Relational Soul

December 18, 2020 - by Rachel Alexander, Esq.

What is in a word? A lot, I think. Although a rose by any name may smell just as sweet, I find that when I frequently bump into and miswrite the same particular words, it may be alerting me to something.

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Feel Better for Real

November 25, 2020 - by Rachel Alexander, Esq.

Age-old, and New Age, wisdom tells us that you get what you focus on. It’s practically common knowledge that the more positive you are,…

TESTIMONIALS

Many thanks for guiding my husband and I through a brutal time in our lives with dignity, respect and compassion. You freaking ROCK!
When I consented to mediation, I honestly did not anticipate such a smooth process based on feedback I received from others. I can say without hesitation that the experience was successful not only with the results that we achieved, but also with the level of communication that Rachel Alexander was able to elicit from each of us. Rachel underscored the benefits that could be realized by our entire family as a result of maintaining reasonable cooperation and engaging each family member. Rachel’s technical understanding of the law along with her ability to mediate the process in a constructive, empathetic manner enabled us to get through a very difficult time as painlessly as possible. I highly recommend the Alexander Mediation Group.
Rachel saw my wife and I through every aspect of our highly conflicted divorce. She helped us mediate contentious issues and showed constant compassion while maintaining her neutrality. When my wife relocated to another state before all the issues of our divorce had been resolved, Rachel availed herself to us by phone to see us through the process. I was extremely confident in her ability and grateful for her responsiveness to our needs. I hold her in the highest regard.
You may not realize this, but you saved my life. How can I ever properly thank you? For the first time in my life I really felt taken care of. Just know that what you do makes a difference, and I will be forever grateful to you. Sending warm hugs to you!
Rachel is meticulous at what she does, and really has helped me streamline my life on a personal and professional level. I highly endorse her and believe in her.
Your concern , work , and commitment in our mediation process was extraordinary. Your help and compassion invaluable. Thank you.

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