Divorce Mediation and Family Attorney

WHAT IS ALEXANDER MEDIATION GROUP?

Alexander Mediation Group is a professional divorce mediation firm serving couples and families throughout New Jersey and New York. Together with the couple, the mediator addresses financial, emotional and legal issues of the divorce. As trained family law attorneys, we have both background and knowledge necessary to navigate the complex world of divorce. As professionals trained and certified in an experiential, therapeutic modality, by the Focusing International Institute, we approach our process and clients with respect for their individuality and humanity. While working towards legal solutions, we also address practical matters to support clients in advancing through the critical transition of divorce.

STILL SAVING YOU MORE THAN MONEY

Mediation is often significantly less expensive than a divorce. The cost of a contested divorce can vary widely, but some experts estimate that they start around $20,000, and go up from there. By contrast, mediation is a fraction of the cost … READ MORE

A HOLISTIC PROCESS

Traditionally, family law attorneys approach neither the family nor divorce holistically. Many divorce lawyers focus only on what immediately benefits their client, missing the long-term view. Certain “wins” can cost the client more than he is prepared to lose – such as the breakdown of goodwill or valued relationships … LEARN MORE

LONG TERM SOLUTIONS

Alexander Mediation Group is a resource for clients and past clients alike. When, over time, circumstances change which affect your divorce agreement, or creates new wrinkles, you may need family law attorneys to help address the situation. … READ MORE

GOAL ORIENTED APPROACH

Even while mediation rests in the present, it is with a consciousness of intention towards the future. When people are encountering painful emotions and endeavoring to overcome overwhelming challenges, goals are invaluable … READ MORE

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Listen to Attunements to ground, calm and clear your mind. Improve your capacity to problem solve creatively and effectively.

SUPPORT

Do not face divorce alone! Join others managing the challenges of divorce at our monthly free divorce support group.

CHILDREN

Your biggest concern and our constant commitment. The best interests of your children is central in every decision we help you negotiate.

RESOURCES

Now is the time to hoard resources. Some are right here, by way of our blog articles, audio recordings, and monthly support group. Do not go it alone!

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Five Myths of Mediation by Rachel Alexander

TESTIMONIALS

It has been said that during one’s time of need true colors shine through with friends and family; these are NOT always pleasant colors. Today, I am proud to call you a true friend in that your true colors have shined through vibrantly and clearly! For, the way you have professionally handled yourself with an unbiased demeanor during my low point and my wife’s during our time of need. Mediation is only a brief description for your services, as the word does not do you justice for the passion, commitment, knowledge and execution you instituted during this time. I want to thank you for all your efforts in providing proper closure for our situation. Not only was mental healing achieved but also financial considerations were enhanced for future preservation. You have put us both on the right path to enjoy a new journey. Keep up the passionate good work and fight the good fight as I wish only more professionals had the personal natural feelings you posses; the world would be a better place.
Many thanks for guiding my husband and I through a brutal time in our lives with dignity, respect and compassion. You freaking ROCK!
I would like to find the perfect words to express to you my gratitude; there is something about you that just brings hope to my spirit and I will forever be grateful to you. We are so glad to have chosen your mediation service and we were so lucky to have you as our mediator; without your human touch and care I would have never been able to overcome all the difficulties I was having …… your guidance and advice made this painful and difficult moment easier for us and our daughter. I never thought that we will be able to come to an agreement in all aspects of this divorce but having your guidance, patience, fairness to both sides of our needs made this process succeed.
When I consented to mediation, I honestly did not anticipate such a smooth process based on feedback I received from others. I can say without hesitation that the experience was successful not only with the results that we achieved, but also with the level of communication that Rachel Alexander was able to elicit from each of us. Rachel underscored the benefits that could be realized by our entire family as a result of maintaining reasonable cooperation and engaging each family member. Rachel’s technical understanding of the law along with her ability to mediate the process in a constructive, empathetic manner enabled us to get through a very difficult time as painlessly as possible. I highly recommend the Alexander Mediation Group.
I just want you to know what an excellent attorney you are and a fine person also. You ushered me through my divorce with expert knowledge, but also with a kindness and understanding that was exceptional. I feel fortunate to have found you. A divorce is such a difficult life experience, and having someone with skill and depth of feeling was the best outcome I could hope for.
Rachel, Thank you for all your help and guidance. You made a difficult situation seem easy. You have a natural ability to resolve conflict and find the best outcome for both parties. I appreciate everything you did for us. Thank you.