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Mediation Questions to Consider
-{7 minutes to read} Clients often ask what can they do to prepare for mediation. This article concerns itself with questions mediation candidates might use to prepare for mediation — not so much regarding collecting this receipt or that statement, but in a more comprehensive and holistic way —
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Feel Better for Real
-Age-old, and New Age, wisdom tells us that you get what you focus on. It’s practically common knowledge that the…
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Re-Entering the Workforce Post Divorce Part 4 of 4
-{5 minutes to read} Katherine Kirkinis, ED.M., M.A. of Wanderlust Careers, our friend and consultant on this series, routinely works…
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To See or Not to See: Discovery in Mediation
-{6 minutes to read} In divorce mediation, there are some things that must never be cloaked in mystery or veiled…
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Divorce Mediation: Respect, Privacy, and Necessary Disclosure
-{5 minutes to read} As a mediator, there are subjects about which I would be remiss if I did not…
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What is an Attunement? (And is an Oil Change Included?)
-{4:30 minutes to read} A focusing session usually begins with a “lead-in” or something called an “attunement.” An attunement, much…
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Are We There Yet? (Or How Long Does Divorce Mediation Take?)
-{4:00 minutes to read} How long is this going to take? When can we get this over with? When people…
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How to Save Money and Affirm Life by Mediating Your Divorce
-{4:24 minutes to read} No one wants to spend more money than absolutely necessary on their divorce. No one has…
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The Magic of the Winter Picnic
-{9:54 minutes to read} Divorce, Money and How to Insulate the Children One winter evening, when I was five,…
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Divorce: Know When to Hold ‘Em, Know When to Fold ‘Em
-{5:36 minutes to read} Recently, a young man, Dave*, called the office, reeling from the discovery of his wife’s infidelity…
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The Difference Between the Mediator, the Draftsman, and Bartleby the Scrivener
-{7:18 minutes to read} On occasion, clients enter mediation with a proposed property settlement agreement in hand—something they have put…
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Changing the Other vs Leaving Them Alone
-Things would work, if only s/he would change {7:36 minutes to read} Many relationships seem to have to do with…
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Why People Divorce: The Breakdown That Precedes the Breakup
-{4:12 minutes to read} As a divorce mediator, I’m often asked: Why do people get divorced? What went wrong? Money…
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Whose Side Are We On? The Same Side!
-{3:00 minutes to read} Not long ago, I heard something fairly remarkable in my mediation session. To set the scene…
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Alimony Ain’t Easy!
-{8:18 minutes to read} As a divorce mediator and family law attorney, I am often asked, “What’s the formula to…
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What Is ESP in New Jersey, and Do You Need a 6th Sense to Benefit?
-{5:36 minutes to read} When divorcing couples are on the (complex) litigation track, at a certain point in the process,…